20 Jul 2018

BY: Janine Mitchell

Change consultant / Changing habits / Remove anxiety

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What has anxiety got to do with social media?

I caught up with my friend recently. As we chatted about what we had been up to, and he told me he had decided to take himself off all social media. Having had a very large following on Instagram, he decided to remove his account from his phone and restrict his checking in to 15 minutes a week.

This happened around four months ago. It has already changed his life beyond recognition. Before, he may have reported anxiety anywhere from up to 8/10. Since he came off all social media, this has reduced his anxiety right down to a 2/10! How amazing is that in only four months?!

My friend told me before he would be constantly comparing himself to others. Thinking others had a better life than him, or a better standard or quality of life. (Bearing in mind, my friend has one awesome life! – He’s got an amazing family, job and social circle, to name but a few). Whereas now he isn’t doing. He feels this area of his life has changed so much. He finds he cares much less about other people, and their lives, and their possible ‘perfect’ portrayal of them on social media.

He has also found he is more present. He is more in the now, and is less into anxiety, stress or worry.

People can often provide inaccurate portrayals of life on social media. It can then be easy to fall into the thought cycle of ‘my life isn’t so good, others lives are perfect, why can’t I have what they’ve got’. So on and so forth. We often obsess ourselves with other peoples lives and what they are perceived to have, rather than focus on the successes, happinesses and achievements in our own lives. The old adage, ‘Keeping up with the Jones’.

So, how is your current social media usage looking, how does it affect you, what can you do differently, and what difference will it make to your life?

Do you resonate with any of the following anxieties? –

  • Other peoples lives look better than mine
  • I’ve not got enough ‘likes’
  • Other people are having so much more fun than me
  • Other people are so much more attractive, better looking then me

You get the picture. What we are doing is comparing ourselves to others, rather than being in the moment and enjoying what our life has to offer. There is also often a very inaccurate portrayal of peoples ‘real’ lives on social media. Any posts will be more likely to focus on amazing parts of peoples lives, rather than the actual reality.

So have a think about how social media is affecting you and what you can do differently. Can you spend less time on there? Can you restrict the times you go on to certain points in the day? Can you have a trial where you go off completely, and see how life looks as a result?

Do let me know how you get on, I’d be really interested to hear the results!

11 Jan 2018

BY: Janine Mitchell

Change consultant / Remove anxiety

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You don’t have to suffer with anxiety
I absolutely love what I do. Why? Because of this. I have clients who come to see me who have suffered with long term anxiety, some for years, well over ten years or more. Within a matter of sessions, symptoms will shift profoundly.

Anxiety is an area that I specialise in. Clients can suffer with any physical symptoms such as panic attacks, not wanting to go in spaces were there are lots of people, and there can be a number of debilitating symptoms which can have huge negative impacts on someones life.

Within a short space of sessions, I see the symptoms of anxiety within clients who have suffered with this on a long term basis completely dissipate and dissolve. This is to the point where they feel like a different person. Back to their old selves prior to suffering with this issue that has been keeping them stuck for years. How rewarding is that!

I saw a new client recently who had seen such dramatic shifts in another client who I had worked with whom she knew through a friend of hers. So she wanted to come and work with me herself.

Within a short space of time, we were able to start releasing some of those old emotions and patterns that had been keeping her completely stuck. So much shifted and with that a massive amount of relief was experienced from my client.

I often liken anxiety to carrying a load of old bags around. When you come back off holiday and you are waiting at the luggage carousel for your suitcases, you don’t get all the suitcases off the carousel and make the decision to carry them all round on your shoulders for the foreseeable future do you? However, we do this with anxiety, worry, stress and other related behaviours. We are literally carrying round a load of old stuff that we don’t need. And guess what? – That is going to become uncomfortable and painful for a years and years!

Trust me, you don’t need to suffer.

Who would make the decision to continue to carry on holding to all this old behaviours or patterns? What is the value to you if you make the decision to let it go? It may feel a struggle on your own, but I can help. You can’t put a price or a value on removing anxiety for good. You simply don’t need it any more.

If you want to know any more about how with my help, you can remove anxiety and all those awful symptoms related to anxiety once and for all, drop me a message or give me a call.
The most common thing most of my clients say is this “I wish I had come to see you sooner”

Janine 

14 Aug 2017

BY: Janine Mitchell

Change consultant / Remove anxiety

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Can anxiety cause you to feel depressed?

How do you feel when you get anxious? Do you feel anxiety somewhere in your body? Do you experience similar thoughts and feelings? Is it a familiar pattern? Would you like to get off this cycle and instead feel calm relaxed and in control? If you resonate with any of this and you are reading this article because you suffer with anxiety or any of the related feelings, then read on.

What is anxiety?

Anxiety is the fear or apprehension of a real or perceived threat. It is a state of worry or panic. Physiological and physical symptoms are experienced. Anxiety is completely normal and is commonplace in a number of situations, for example an exam, a driving test or a job interview. However, too much anxiety can cause distress and can be highly debilitating.

Some people may have an identifiable cause for anxiety for example the loss of a loved one, a traumatic incident, or a significant life event such as moving house or getting divorced. Others don’t have an identifiable cause and it can be caused by a number of issues including post traumatic stress, obsessive compulsive disorder, or social phobias. The symptoms will most likely be very similar. The physiological feelings that can be experienced include increased heart rate, dizziness, feeling sick, difficulty breathing.

Prolonged periods of anxiety can be debilitating. When it interferes with daily life it can impact in a number of ways. Common forms of anxiety come in the form of anxiety disorders or panic attacks. They can come on and be triggered out of nowhere. Leaving you feeling out of control, worried, upset, low or disorientated.

It can also cause feelings of constant worry and apprehension. This can then become cyclical in nature, leading to further feelings of frustration and helplessness.

How does anxiety manifest?

When we are in a constant state of stress whereby we are triggering the fight or flight response, this is when anxiety can occur. Or should I say signs and symptoms of anxiety. Our bodies can deal with a certain amount of stress and of course some stress is good for us. However if we are on constant stress alert, the body is flooded with stress hormones, that will then put us into a state of distress. The body literally cannot cope, so we then form feelings of anxiety which then lead to the physiological symptoms I referred to earlier.

So does anxiety cause you to feel depressed?

Anxiety and depression can often go hand in hand. However the two are not the same, as they are two different disorders. One can often lead to feelings of the other and visa versa. Often feelings of anxiety can lead to feeling low, helpless or upset. So, anxiety can lead to the development of depression and related symptoms.

Don’t continue to suffer

What I would say, is look to seek support or help now. There are many different types of support packages out there to help. You don’t need to suffer alone. There are ways you can completely eradicate the symptoms of anxiety for good.

 

I have been helping suffers of anxiety for a number of years. This is an area I specialise in. I help you to remove anxiety quickly and simply from your life, for good. I also teach a simple self help tool that allows you to instantly get off the hormones of stress, by immediately calming down the stress response, or the fight or flight. This also removes all those old anxiety behaviours. This is something that you can use in any situation, to enable you to immediately feel calm, secure an in control.

 

Imagine a life where you no longer suffered with any feelings of anxiety? How free you would feel as a result and how different your life would be!

 

On the other hand, imagine what the costs would be if you continue to live a life that is ruled by anxiety and you’re feeling totally out of control as a result? How would this debilitate you even further, and what would the costs be to you and others?
I can help. I can talk through some simple strategies that you can use to enable you to move forward. You don’t need to suffer alone for a moment longer.
To find out more about how I can help, don’t hesitate to get in touch by completing the contact form below. 

 

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08 May 2017

BY: Janine Mitchell

Change consultant / Remove anxiety

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How much is your anxiety and depression costing you?

Have you been suffering from deep routed anxiety or depression for too long?

What cost does it have on various areas of your life?

Is your work suffering as a result?

Is it putting unnecessary pressure on your relationships? – Is it affecting those close to you such as your partner, family, friends or relatives?

Are you suffering poor health?

How would you like to get this resolved once and for all? How would you like to be completely free of all the sighs and symptoms of depression or anxiety in only three months? Yes, you heard me, three months! How would you like to lead a life of abundance, happiness and to be completely free rather than being held back?

Then I can help. There is no price you can put on banishing anxiety or depression for good.

In three months, I will help you to completely rid yourself of all the signs and symptoms of deep routed anxiety or depression.

Here are the answers to some common questions Before You Work With Me –

How will I benefit?

In three months, you will make enormous life changes. Your relationships will significantly improve. Your overall attitude to work and performance when you are at work will dramatically increase. If you are in business, improved success is just around the corner. Your health and wellbeing will be totally revitalised. You will have bundles of energy and your sleep will be better. You will attract more of what you want into your life instead of what you don’t want. Old, negative thinking will be a thing of the past.

What will I learn?

You will learn that there is nothing wrong with YOU, it’s just old programs you learnt a long time ago that keeps you stuck, in old habits, patterns and negative ways of thinking. You will learn you can let go of the past, which will allow you to move forward to a life of wealth, health and success. You will learn how the mind works. Practical tools and techniques will be taught which you will use both in and out of sessions, which will be applied on a daily basis. You will be able to rid yourself of old behaviours that no longer serve you in a much quicker time that you might think. You will learn how to relax, and shift your mindset, which will allow you to focus on the positives, which will lead to happiness and abundance in every area of your life. This will all be achieved in a relaxed, informal and friendly environment.

The 3 Month Support Package

What does the package look like?

You will be signing up to a complete three month support plan, which will lead to big life change. This will include the following –

  • Weekly sessions
  • Direct access to Janine in between sessions
  • Recordings to listen to in between sessions
  • Practical tools to be used out of sessions.

What will it cost?

  • The three month package is £1000. This can either be paid in full or can be paid in weekly installments, with a deposit of £200 paid upon booking.
  • ** Special offer this week only ** if you sign up to the full package this week, you will receive a saving of £100 (booking and payment must be received by midnight on 12.5.17)

How much is deep routed anxiety or depression costing you right now? Are you serious about making big life changes? You cannot put a price on vastly improving your life, and banishing anxiety or depression for good. I can help you.

Sign up for a 3 month complete support package :

contact me by messaging me or providing your details on the contact form below. I’m looking forward to helping you completely change your life!

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Janine Mitchell at Change for Success is here help to you. Call Janine on 07854273916

Janine is a fully qualified hypnotherapist, EFT and NLP practitioner.

As your coach, Janine will guide you towards achieving your goals.and the success you deserve.

 

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